great minds think alike

Actually this is yet another example of synchronicity and the collective unconscious, but I got a nice boost from the "great mind" line.

For my birthday, my husband gave me Jane Savoie's Happy Horse training program, which includes audio CDs, a book, and DVDs. She does a wonderful job taking the rider through the dressage levels and I am very slowly working my way through the program.

I've corresponded with Jane a bit about wanting to study dressage without being punitive or harsh or "loud" with the horses, and she created this program for just that purpose. She's written numerous articles about being an advocate for your horse (with punitive trainers, riding instructors, etc.) and I just read that she rode from SC to Vermont IN THE TRAILER with her wonderful horse Moshi, who developed some serious medical issues after they set out to travel from Florida to her Vermont home. The story of how they completed the trip (with conference calls to vets and stops every 1-2 hours to keep Moshi comfortable) reinforced for me how much Jane loves her horses.

Imagine my surprise this morning when my husband forwarded me two emails from Jane. (the mass emails go to him b/c he ordered the program from his email)

The first email was her June newsletter, in which one item has to do with using EFT for conquering a rider's fear of cantering! Apparently Jane has been using EFT with her students for years to help them overcome fears and anxiety. It's possible I "knew" this but since I have only recently learned how to use EFT with my own clients, I did not make the connection earlier on when reading about Jane's work.

The second email was a postscript from Jane answering a newsletter reader's question about using EFT with horses!

She suggests that placing one hand on the horse, but tapping oneself while saying the affirmations, is one way to go.

I still plan to discuss this with my massage therapist, because I have a feeling tapping the horse in the right spots will be very effective. In the meantime, however, if you're interested in checking out EFT practices with Jane Savoie and all her years of experience, go to her website and read the June newsletter. If I'm not mistaken, she covers EFT for riders in at least one of her earlier books.

I'll report back on my own application of EFT to horses next week, but I wanted to share this lovely bit of synchronicity today.

And healing thoughts to Jane's Moshi, who I hope is back to good health and great riding.

a quick note

Friend and fellow writer A.S. King sent me a post tonight for mystic-lit, and it was so good and so personally useful to me right now I practically tripped over my own fingers clicking over to Blogger to put it up.

Please go read it, if you're a writer, or even if you're not. The message translates to other endeavors than writing.

EFT and horses

This morning I was reading Stacey Kimmel-Smith's blog Behind The Bit, and was struck by her description of having her fidgety horse's mane braided for a show. Using a twitch didn't work, but when Stacey tapped on his nose with the end of the whip, he was mesmerized and calm.

I immediately thought of a technique I have been teaching my human clients, called EFT (emotional freedom technique).

EFT is based on a discovery regarding the body's subtle energies. Basically, it's an "emotional" version of acupuncture but without the needles. You use your fingers to tap various points on your body, in a sequence. I've had success using this method on myself, and clients as young as 5 have reported excellent results.

So when I read Stacy's success story with the tapping and braiding, I wondered: can EFT work with horses?

I'm going to try it later today and see how it goes.

apples, appletinis, horses in the back yard, and the Connells

And more reading pages out loud at 10 p.m. I am SO happy to be getting feedback on the novel. It's a real gift.

Horses snorting in the back, Keil Bay taking an apple from the deck, the Connells belting out "Slack-jawed" - what a wonderful evening.

pals (but no kisses)