Oh, the pure beauty of a second Christmas with precious beloveds…

 

The days on which we celebrate matter not at all, it’s what happens in the room, when we’re eating delicious food, enjoying one another’s food as much as our own. Tasting new things, having new favorites. It’s the little table waiting, earlier in the day, for its occupants to arrive, christened by Violet, who always christens everything new in the house. 

It’s the arrival itself, coming off a day of play and hugs and laughter, coming off the looking together for the birthday gift for dad, the drive through the gate to the farm, which itself knows how to welcome the family who loves it so.

It’s the run up the stairs to the living room, the instant seating at the little table, then playtime, the food, more play, the gifts. 

It’s when every person in the room loves everyone’s gifts as much as they do their own. The way everyone in the room exclaims with smiles and satisfaction and joy. The pure absence of awkwardness and tension. It’s the way the gifts become immediate activities, shared, delighted in all together. All the smiles, all the hugs, the Christmas basket monster who makes everyone laugh. 

The stockings, such delight in tiny things, treats and little gifts. The sharing, the trading. 

And it is the gathering of things to take home, the dogs, the cats, the leavetaking that is not goodbye but simply until tomorrow, until our next time together, such fun to pack the car and give second and third and fourth hugs. 

The bird call I do not recognize in the darkening forest beside us. It occurs to me it could be the phoenix. 

ATTENTION HORSE HAY BUYERS: PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU BUY FROM TREY or TRACEY WALLACE, possibly dba TRIPLE N LIVESTOCK in NC

Current update with links to judgment/outcome of the equine abuse case in Cumberland County Superior Court in NC:

This is in response to an anonymous commenter who says her name is Tracey Wallace and that she employs both Austin Wayne Simpson and Kylie Lenore Parker. Below are the links for the case summary with all information from beginning to final judgment. These are public records. 

Case Summary for Austin Wayne Simpson

Case Summary for Kylie Lenore Parker

Austin Wayne Simpson was found guilty in a non-jury trial of cruelty to animals, felony on 5/8/25 and is currently on probation through 5/8/2030. Note regarding probation:

DEFT IS TO BE PERMITTED THROUGH PROBATION TO TRAVEL FOR WORK. DEFT IS PROHIBITED FROM OWNING OR TRAINING ANY EQUINE ANIMALS. THE ONLY ALLOWABLE CONTACT WITH EQUINE ANIMALS IS FOR FEEDING OR HARVESTING HAY THROUGH HIS EMPLOYMENT., SPLIT SENTENCE IS TO BE COMPLETED BEFORE 12/31/25. ONCE MONIES ARE PAID AND SPLIT SENTENCE IS COMPLETED PROBATION MAY BE TRANSFERRED TO UNSUPERVISED. SUPERVISION FEES REMITTED. TRANSFER TO ROBESON COUNTY FOR SUPERVISION., 05/08/2025 - 05/08/2030, Active 05/08/2025

Kylie Lenore Parker was found guilty in a non-jury trial of cruelty to animals, misdemeanor on 5/8/25 and is currently on probation through 5/8/2030. Note regarding probation:

DEFT IS TO BE PERMITTED THROUGH PROBATION TO TRAVEL FOR WORK. DEFT IS PROHIBITED FROM OWNING OR TRAINING ANY EQUINE ANIMALS. THE ONLY ALLOWABLE CONTACT WITH EQUINE ANIMALS IS FOR FEEDING OR HARVESTING HAY THROUGH HER EMPLOYMENT. FIRST YEAR SUPERVISED PROBATION ONCE MONEY IS PAID AND HER PARTNER, AUSTIN SIMPSON, IS TRANSFERRED TO UNSUPERVISED PROBATION SHE CAN BE TRANSFERED AS WELL. TRANSFER TO ROBESON COUNTY FOR SUPERVISION. REMIT SUPERVISION FEES. DEFENDANT IS GIVEN ONE DAY TOWARDS SPLIT SENTENCE.,05/08/2025 - 05/08/2030, Active 05/08/2025

As you can read in the anonymous comment left by someone stating that she is Tracey Wallace, the information in that comment is not entirely truthful when compared to court documents in the public record as linked above. 

Tracey Wallace appears to be connected to Triple N Livestock page on Facebook, which you can see HERE

The name Tracey and the same phone number as in the comment appear on this FB page, which states that Triple N Livestock provides alfalfa sales, livestock sales, and transportation. There is no last name or location information on this page, which I find concerning. The last post was in 2024 so they may be operating another page at this time. 

I would not allow Kylie Lenore Parker, Austin Wayne Simpson, nor Tracey Wallace anywhere near my animals, equine or otherwise. 

I would not support this company in any way, due to dishonesty as noted most recently in the comment left on this blog, employment of or possibly being people who have been found guilty of equine abuse and are currently on probation for that crime, and who may be violating the conditions of probation. I do not know if that is true or not true, but most people with knowledge of this case believe they continue to have illegal contact with horses.

If I had any knowledge of either of these individuals doing anything beyond transporting hay I would report it to their probation officer and to the Cumberland County Superior Court in NC. 

January 2026 update, from an anonymous commenter:

One year later update—they are trying desperately to push into VA and MD markets to sell hay. I did some thorough digging and am extremely confident that Trey Wallace is an alias account. The phone number used for the business is registered to Anthony R Parker of MO (likely her relative). “Trey’s” sales page, Triple N Livestock is connected to Austin’s relative Tracey Simpson (maiden name Wallace), listing “Tracey” as the name connected with the same phone number. If you watch the sales videos, you can see Austin’s face and Kylie in the background of another video (anyone else find it strange that sales videos intentionally cut out the rider’s head up close??). Anyways, they’re banned from owning horses for life and are absolutely working around those rulings. 

Thank you for this blog, as it has been critical for those of us out of state to get ahead of this!

Me: These two convicted horse abusers are apparently not following the ruling handed down that they are not to own or work with horses. If you encounter them, keep them away from your horses. And go a step further: report them to NC court system. They shouldn’t earn a penny from anything to do with horses, including selling hay. 

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He is reportedly employing and covering up the fact that two known horse abusers, whose trial is still pending in NC, are not only working for him but handling horses. They should never be allowed to be in the vicinity of horses again. 

This is just one of the people posting about this on FB today, sharing personal experiences with Trey Wallace, Austin Wayne Simpson, and Kylie Lenore Parker. These two people are known to be using fake names, accounts, and information online to hide their identities because so many people will have nothing to with them knowing what they have done. 

The foal they maliciously abused died from those injuries after months of rehab and professional vet care in the hands of reputable rescuers. 

It is tragic but not surprising that their young son is acting with the same abusive behaviors they have been videoed using on foals and horses. 

If you have or witness any abusive behaviors from any of these people call 911 and report them to the authorities. 

November Hill farm journal, 225

 My newest friend, this little phoebe, visits every day while I’m in my lofty office seeing clients, doing EMDR, and also writing. 

It’s been a busy month so far, with kids and ponies and donkeys and dogs and cats and one very handsome horse. Let’s not forget the garden beds, and my slow but steady progress in tidying them while leaving all the good parts for the birds and insects and small mammals who also live on November Hill. And let’s not forget the apiary and the honeybees.

We have had cold weather, then a warming, some much-needed rain, and today we are back to cold and sunshine. 

During the rain spell, I was out romping with Baloo in the heavy fog when I looked up and captured the sweet gum tree talking to all the other trees who are circled around us. Let’s not forget the trees! I count them among my very best friends.

I’m working in the novel I began last November and am officially at the halfway point. This isn’t my fastest first drafting for sure, but it represents the slow and steady progress of committing to doing what you can, on a very regular basis. I’m proud of this effort and I’m still loving this new story. 

I’m also thinking a lot about anchors in daily life. Anchors being, for me, moments of joy that keep me centered and focused on positive things. That I have so much power to place my mood if I actively look for and notice beautiful things. Here is one of those, outside my bedroom window. You may not see what my brain inserts here: Rafer Johnson, Cody, both of whom are up closer to the barn in this photo. But also Keil Bay, and Salina. And my first little horse, Bo-Jinx. They are all there, behind Redford and Little Man. And they will always be there. 

Today I am noticing the joy of two children and their faces as they talk to their dad, all of them full of smiles and joy and sharing. It makes my heart sing. It makes my entire mind soar. What love can do, how much it can repair, and how strong it is when it needs to be so. We have the power to reprocess trauma, to push negative things away from us. We often need support to learn how to do these things, sometimes we need professional treatment. Sometimes medication helps. But we have this power. If you are reading here and you do not know how to tap into this, you can ask me and I’ll tell you things to try. Or ask someone closer in your own circle. I do this kind of work every single day and I see people finding joy. If you don’t have it, you can find it too. The only way you won’t is if you refuse to try. 

Last week the crescent moon and Venus rose above our neighborhood like beacons of hope and possibility.  You might notice the trees, the deeply-rooted guardians who are always there from my front porch, watching over us but also joining with us. I feel so much love from the trees. The crowns, the trunks, their bones in winter skies, their lush foliage either evergreening or at rest until spring. Let’s not forget the root systems, going deep, connecting, intertwining with one another. Communicating. This is where we live. This is our ecosystem. This is our support network. All we have to do is tap in to it. 

Happy December from November Hill. 

Morning and Moving into a New Era

 

This Thanksgiving has been the best I remember since 2017. It’s been simple and very sweet, pure and without any tension. I am so very grateful for my family.

This morning I woke up feeling like a new era is here for us. Bright blue sky, deeply rooted trees, love, peace. 

We’re moving closer to the omen days that begin the new year and I am so ready for them. I hope everyone is feeling hope and a sense of the new today. 

Thanksgiving 2024

 

Grateful this year for the very late autumn colors, my husband, my children, and my grandchildren, a Thanksgiving together with all of them and our dogs, cats, and equines on November Hill. My place, my home, my anchor in this difficult year. 

May we all move safely forward to the winter solstice and beyond.